Why Does My 2 Month Old Cry While Breastfeeding?

When your 2-month-old cries while breastfeeding, it can be a perplexing and emotionally taxing experience for both you and your baby. However, there are several reasons why this may be happening, and it’s important to delve into these factors to address the issue effectively.

1. Hunger and Latch Issues

One common reason for crying during breastfeeding could be due to hunger. Your baby might be crying because they are not getting enough milk or experiencing difficulty latching on properly. Ensuring a correct latch and offering frequent feedings can help alleviate this.

2. Overtiredness and Distractions

At 2 months old, babies can easily become overtired or distracted during feeding sessions. Skipping naps or a night of poor sleep can lead to fussiness at the breast. Creating a calm and quiet environment for feeding or trying different positions can help minimize distractions.

3. Growth Spurts

During growth spurts, babies may demand more milk and exhibit increased fussiness while breastfeeding. This is a natural phase of development and usually resolves once the growth spurt subsides. Offering frequent feedings can help meet your baby’s increased hunger.

4. Gas or Reflux

Gas pains or reflux can also cause discomfort for babies during breastfeeding, leading to crying and fussiness. Burping your baby frequently during feedings and keeping them in an upright position after nursing can aid in reducing these symptoms.

5. Sensory Overload

The world can be overwhelming for a young baby, and sensory overload can occur during breastfeeding, causing distress and crying. Minimizing external stimuli, such as noise and bright lights, can create a calmer feeding environment.

6. Illness or Discomfort

If your baby is unwell or experiencing discomfort, such as teething pain or ear infections, they may cry during breastfeeding due to feeling unwell. Consulting with a healthcare provider can help address any underlying health issues.

7. Temperature Sensitivity

Babies are sensitive to temperature variations, and being too hot or cold can impact their feeding experience. Ensuring that your baby is comfortably dressed and adjusting the room temperature can prevent discomfort during nursing sessions.

8. Emotional Connection

Some babies cry during breastfeeding as a means of seeking comfort and emotional connection with their caregiver. Providing skin-to-skin contact and offering soothing words can help reassure your baby during these moments.

9. Feeding Position

The feeding position plays a crucial role in breastfeeding comfort. Experimenting with different feeding positions, such as the cradle hold or football hold, can help find a position that is most comfortable for both you and your baby.

10. Supply Issues

If your milk supply is low, your baby may become frustrated and cry during breastfeeding. Ensuring proper hydration, rest, and seeking support from a lactation consultant can help address milk supply concerns and improve breastfeeding experience.

11. Emotional State of the Mother

A mother’s emotional state can impact a baby’s feeding experience. Stress, anxiety, or tension can be transferred to the baby during breastfeeding, leading to increased crying. Taking time for self-care and seeking support can promote a more relaxed feeding environment.

Why Does My 2 Month Old Cry While Breastfeeding?

12. Persistent Crying

If your baby continues to cry excessively during breastfeeding, despite addressing potential causes, it’s essential to consult with a pediatrician to rule out any underlying medical issues or conditions that may be contributing to the crying episodes.

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Nancy Sherman

Nancy Sherman has more than a decade of experience in education and is passionate about helping schools, teachers, and students succeed. She began her career as a Teaching Fellow in NY where she worked with educators to develop their instructional practice. Since then she held diverse roles in the field including Educational Researcher, Academic Director for a non-profit foundation, Curriculum Expert and Coach, while also serving on boards of directors for multiple organizations. She is trained in Project-Based Learning, Capstone Design (PBL), Competency-Based Evaluation (CBE) and Social Emotional Learning Development (SELD).